Divina Rae

Photography by The BY WAY OF US TEAM


I can’t remember when I met Divina now, what I do know is that when we met, it felt like we had known each other forever. (Was it through our friend Mez and through your husband? It had to be.)

You know when you meet those people who are such similar positions as you, it just becomes an instant bond? Having moved from the east coast (Rhode Island), we connected over being small business owners, becoming mothers, and continue to both search for the “balance” that is work and life.

The wearable pieces she makes are the perfect reflection of their maker: classic, beautiful, but something special. Which is why I’m so thrilled to not only introduce you to her via this feature but through a very special event we are putting together to make your very own Divine Individual pearl bracelet.


 

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Wisdom

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Home 〰️ Work 〰️ Love 〰️ Wisdom 〰️

  • “We moved from our home state of Rhode Island to follow a dream of being in a big city and chasing our careers. I wanted to work in fashion and he wanted to work in the music industry. We both shared an admiration for California and agreed we were done with winter after a TERRIBLE snow storm.”

  • “I was hired once we moved to LA for a small jewelry company that really opened my eyes to the inner workings of entrepreneurship and starting your own business. After working a corporate job in retail it was so refreshing for me to see a young woman with an all-female staff build something from the ground up.”

  • “Everyone says ‘my mom is the strongest person I know,’ but many people not related to me have shared that my mom is the strongest person they know.”

  • “Invest in yourself. Visualize the life you want and speak it into existence. Your body is a temple. Be a good person. ”

 

Home

DO YOU HAVE A DAILY PRACTICE? OR DO YOU HAVE A MORNING RITUAL?

I make a conscious effort to not reach for my phone the moment I wake up. I intentionally try to rehydrate and drink a glass of water when I open my eyes, cuddle or kiss my daughter, use the restroom, and stretch before checking my phone. I also clean my space. I make my bed every morning because it helps me keep a clear mind and feel ready for my day. I clean my whole home before I even make breakfast. It sounds like a lot, but if you clean daily and make it part of your ritual it’s not time-consuming. Once my place is cleaned, I am dressed, and I have breakfast, I feel prepared to do any and everything. My husband wakes up with my daughter every morning to have that bonding time with her and gets her ready for the rest of her day with me.

How do you make a house a home?

Clean linens, a Divine candle, and a home-cooked meal to share with the people you love.

Why and when did LA happen for you? Where were you before and what brought you here?

I, like most people that grew up in pop culture and Hollywood movies, romanticized the great city of LA since childhood. I vividly recall recurring dreams I used to have about driving through hills, amazing beaches with cliff sides, and palm trees as a backdrop to my life. I moved here with my then-boyfriend of one year (now husband), about 9 years ago. We moved from our home state of Rhode Island to follow a dream of being in a big city and chasing our careers. I wanted to work in fashion and he wanted to work in the music industry. We both shared an admiration for California and agreed we were done with winter after a TERRIBLE snowstorm.

 
 

Work

what was your path to get you to where you are today?

I was hired once we moved to LA for a small jewelry company that really opened my eyes to the inner workings of entrepreneurship and starting your own business. After working a corporate job in retail it was so refreshing for me to see a young woman with an all-female staff build something from the ground up. The success of her business allowed her the freedom of her own schedule, to design what she pleased, and an opportunity to be a present mom.

Did you have mentors or some sort of guidance along the way?

Absolutely! 2 major influences for me are Maya Brenner, owner of Maya Brenner designs, and Ariel Maffei, owner of Ariel Gordon Jewelry. I worked for both of these women before starting my own line and learned everything about efficiently running an office, communicating with a production team, managing accounts, designing jewelry, and the power of press and social media to make sales on an e-commerce platform.

What does your average day look like? What are your go-to tools?  

After finishing my morning routine, I check my emails. Make a to-do list with my priorities for the day, pack up a diaper bag with all the essentials, and head out the door. Typically I make runs to the jewelry district where all of my jewelry is handmade. After sourcing my materials or picking up completed pieces from production I then head to my office for shipping and fulfillment of my orders. I pack orders, create content, prioritize business plans, and answer more emails all while my daughter naps. My go-to tools are my cutters and pliers for when I am assembling chains or necklaces with pendants, and my ring mandrel for checking sizes for our super popular rings.

What is the biggest joy about working in your field? What is the hardest part?

The biggest joy I get is when a customer reaches out to tell me how much they love my jewelry and how they never take it off. The hardest thing I’ve come across in my field is having to work in a mostly male-dominated industry where a lot of the older men undermine your experience or knowledge. For example, I’ve been sold a large order of fake diamonds that I had to have authenticated for proof because the person didn’t think I’d know the difference. It’s really important to always stay knowledgeable of your craft as well as slightly untrusting of people. It sounds negative but it’s a necessary survival skill.

What can people expect from our workshop?

They can expect to come and make a completely gorgeous crystal and pearl combo bracelet that will be a super stylish one-of-one, making each piece a Divine Individual.

 

Love

Who is your go-to person? Or go-to people? 

My husband and my mother. If anything goes insanely well or insanely bad they’re the first people I talk to about it.

 

When you think of community, who comes to mind? How did you find or foster your community?

All of the people in my life that want to see me win and all the people that I want to see win. You can’t have a community without championing the people you love and vice versa. 

 

Are you in a partnership? If so, what is the best part of partnership, what is the worst part? 

Yes, I am married. The best part is being so close to the person you’re in love with. The worst part is being so close to the person you’re in love with. If you know, you know

 

Who is your hero? Who are some people you look up to professionally and personally?

So cheesy, but my mom. Everyone says “my mom is the strongest person I know.” But many people not related to me have shared that my mom is the strongest person they know. She taught me to be an independent thinker, that I can do literally anything I put my mind to, how respecting myself will show others that I demand it from them.. the list goes on. 

Wisdom

 
What lessons have you learned during these past few pandemic years?

I saw an actors round-table interview and there was a quote from Tom Hanks that stuck with me about how “This too shall pass”. To summarize, he basically explains that when everything feels really low “this too shall pass” and when everything feels really great “this too shall pass.” Being an entrepreneur, especially early in your career, your business will be filled with highs and lows. When The pandemic hit and retail sales seemed to be at a stand still many business owners had to pivot and see what they could do to keep their business afloat, including myself. It taught me to plan for the slow moments.

 

What is the best advice you've ever received? 

Invest in yourself.

Visualize the life you want and speak it into existence.

Your body is a temple. 

Be a good person.

How do you stay present while still planning and looking forward to the future?

Making to do lists for my day, week, and month help me prioritize my time and devote all of my free time to nurturing my family. It’s the most important thing to me and keeps me feeling fulfilled. I have an adorable dog and a beautiful almost 2 year old daughter who I feel like I owe all of my free time to. My world revolves around them. I do my best to do as much outdoor time as I can each day with them, read every book Mila asks me to read to her, pick her up when she asks, and show her how much I care by being as available to her as humanly possible. I’ve learned already how fast they grow and I intend to be present in every moment that I am fortunate enough to have this precious little version of her. 

What does success look like for you, mean to you?

Love, good health, and wealth.

Where do you see yourself at 85?

Owning a ranch close to a beach. I want to have an animal sanctuary, my own fruit and veggie garden, and a long white haired braid that goes down to my knees while I do yoga everyday.

What kind of advice would you give to someone 
  • struggling in their work?

    Remind yourself why you started. If the why is different, why? Adjust accordingly to your wants and needs. If it requires starting over or removing yourself from something that no longer sparks joy, do it.

  • having a hard time giving themselves grace?

    Speak to yourself the way you would to someone you love or care about.

  • Feeling inadequate as a parent?

    We are all just figuring it out as we go and doing the best we can with what we have. This is the hardest job we will ever have. 

  • wanting to "get there" or "be there" already in their life?

    Savor the moments that turn into memories. People with this type of mindset tend to rarely be grateful or satisfied with what they already have. When you think this way, you’re constantly wanting to get the next best thing and it’s a never-ending want, the more you get. You can only find true happiness learning to love and appreciate the present. “All that we got is right now. Nothing’s for sure, but right now.” -Jhene Aiko

  • to a younger version of yourself?

    Concentrate on yourself.

Follow Divina: @divineindividual

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Interview by Sarah Kim & Ashley Mariano

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Follow Divina: @divineindividual 〰️ Interview by Sarah Kim & Ashley Mariano 〰️